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Recently we covered the areas of self development, humour, good health and r=
est=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EI showed the guys my =
DVD recording of one of Dr John Tickell=92s lectures=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-sp=
acerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EDr John Tickell is the author of =91Laughter, Se=
x, Vegetables and Fish -10 Secrets of Long Living People=92=2E<SPAN style=3D=
'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EDr John is a father of five and a former =
professional AFL footballer with a great sense of humour=2E<SPAN style=3D'ms=
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AN=3EMen die six years earlier than women=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes=
'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EMen=92s health generally is atrocious=2E The fault lies par=
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ofession=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3ESome of us would=
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cerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThe other side of the equation is the way in whic=
h government health policy has been heavily slanted towards women over the p=
ast few decades for various reasons neglecting men=92s health=2E<SPAN style=3D=
'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThe good news is the government=92s side =
of the equation is beginning to change=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=
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s Health Week=92 in Australia so I thought I would share the first principle=
 of Dr John Tickell=92s =91A=2EC=2EE=92 program,<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun:=
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you to become the healthiest dads in the world for the sake of your children=
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y=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EAfter we men reach our =
physical peak at about age 32 we =91start to go backwards=92 as Dr John<IMG =
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ays=2E =91Every muscle we don=92t use for 48 hours starts to weaken and disa=
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/SPAN=3EThat=92s right it turns to fat=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=
=A0 </SPAN=3EThe only way to turn this around is to exercise regularly=2E<SP=
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he greater the need to keep your body moving=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: =
yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EWalking, running, rowing, swimming and weight training a=
re great ways to do this=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3E=
Two types of exercise are important=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0=
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mina and get your heart muscle pumping=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=
=A0 </SPAN=3EWork to get your lungs lightly puffing a minimum of three times=
 per week=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThe other type =
of problem to address is muscle loss - a simple program of weight training w=
ill correct this=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EPush-ups=
 and sit-ups are an easily accessible form of weight training, though a full=
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Dr John advocates doing these types of exercise for 1% of your week=2E<SPAN =
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right now, then you had better be prepared to make time to be sick later on =
in your life=2E=92<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EIn one of=
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ck or cancer over the last several years=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=
=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EHe believes that four of those fatalities could have been av=
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=A0 </SPAN=3ERoutine exercise and an increased level of activity are among t=
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'=3EWarwick Marsh=A0=A0has been married=A0to Alison for=A028 years=2E He is =
the father of five children, four boys and one girl, ranging in age from 23 =
years to=A011 years=2E=A0 Warwick is a musician, songwriter, producer and pu=
blic speaker who likes to think he can still laugh at himself=2E</SPAN=3E</P=
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EN-AU style=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 11=2E0pt'=3ETHE ART OF FATHERING =96 LIVI=
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=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 11=2E0pt'=3ELiving with young people; =
hard for some =96 impossible for many=2E Yes, they are certainly different t=
oday than 30 years ago=2E However, it is possible to enjoy having our teenag=
e treasures in the same space as ours =96 providing we understand some of th=
e workings of this experience=2E This week=92s article again draws from the =
superb material written by John & Judith Simpson, ex Superintendents of the =
Baptist Union in Victoria=2E The book =91Family Glue=92 was written in 1997,=
 and has much useful information on understanding the dynamics of family lif=
e, and suggested methods to improve it=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P cl=
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EN-AU style=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 11=2E0pt'=3EChapter 4 of the Simpsons=92 =
book discusses some obvious differences, and the many variables within the h=
omes of young people, with some valuable tips mentioned below on how to cope=
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yle=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 11=2E0pt'=3EThe teenage years can be times of gre=
at joy and great drama=2E Try to ignore the =91just you wait=92 crowd=2E Som=
e parents do go through hell with their young people=2E Be different! Decide=
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tyle=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 11=2E0pt'=3ETry to remember how your parents cop=
ed with you=2E What lessons have you learnt to help in bringing up your own =
young people=3F If you felt your own teenage years were tough can you use th=
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g=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 11=2E0pt'=3EGive your young person th=
e space to accept increasing degrees of responsibility for various areas of =
their life=2E Negotiate=2E Talk=2E The new freedoms will provide avenues for=
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t you trust them=2E The need to aggressively claim independence is thus dram=
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'mso-bidi-font-size: 11=2E0pt'=3ELeave some areas well alone! Hair styles, m=
usic and dress are all relatively insignificant=2E Your ongoing relationship=
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l every aspect of their life, frustration (for you and for them) will be the=
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and it=2E You sang the hits in your day! Watch TV with them ands talk about =
the programs so that you can help them shape their values through casual con=
versation=2E If they play sport, do all you can to support them=2E <o:p=3E</=
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The highway to adulthood is not a straight road but it has to be travelled=2E=
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e=2E It has many great joys but it also has its moments of uncertainty, fear=
 and failure=2E Dependence and independence fight great battles=2E The emerg=
ing adult is ready to take on the world one moment but grudgingly anxious fo=
r the security of parental influence the next=2E We hope at the end, in the =
goodness of God, to find a fine young person ready to take their place in th=
e world=2E And the cycle is ready to start all over again=2E</SPAN=3E</I=3E<=
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enting and for restricting a father=92s contact with his children=2E I know =
of one case where a judge, who found no fault with a father, refused the fat=
her contact with his child, purely because of the mother=92s intense hatred =
of the father and her vindictive behaviour towards him=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-=
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lties between parents are also presented by the opponents of shared parentin=
g as the main reason for their opposition=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes=
'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EI know of no non-custodial parents who oppose shared parent=
ing on this basis=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThese s=
hared parenting opponents are invariably the custodial parents=2E<o:p=3E</o:=
p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-A=
LIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: V=
erdana'=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MAR=
GIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SI=
ZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EThe current legislative environment and so=
cial security system puts custodial parents and their children in a very dif=
ficult position=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EShared pa=
renting would require the surrender of a large part of their income: parenti=
ng payments, family allowance and Child Support Agency =91entitlements=92=2E=
<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThe security of their incom=
e, determined by legislation, usually becomes an over-riding and understanda=
ble concern in the unwillingness to negotiate fair parenting arrangements=2E=
<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThis fundamental problem an=
d hindrance was largely ignored by the recent parliamentary inquiry into chi=
ld custody arrangements=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal=
 style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU sty=
le=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</=
P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E=
<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EIt is w=
orth noting that public schools require no parent / teacher relationship pre=
requisites in determining class structures and allotting children to teacher=
s=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EIn fact a consideration=
 of the quality of the existing parent / teacher relationship is given not e=
ven a passing thought=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EDes=
pite this, teachers often have contact with children equal to that of the pa=
rents=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: =
0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 1=
0pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMso=
Normal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-=
AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3EQuite often, and for va=
rious reasons, there is little or no<IMG hspace=3D3 src=3D'http://www=2Ebosw=
eb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5Fdad=5Fkid%201=2Ejpg' a=
lign=3Dright vspace=3D3 border=3D0=3E interaction between teachers and paren=
ts=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EThis is also usually t=
he way children prefer it=2E<SPAN style=3D'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3E=
There is no reason why post-separation shared parenting cannot function in a=
 similar way and with equal success=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=
=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=
=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana'=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E=
</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN=
: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verda=
na'=3EThe value of a father=92s contact with his children is far greater tha=
n that of a teacher=2E </SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: =
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=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E=
<P style=3D'MARGIN-RIGHT: 1=2E3pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=
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EN-AU style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 12=
=2E0pt'=3ERoland Foster is an non-custodial father, separated since 1997, wi=
th 5 young children aged between=A07 and 15 years=2E=A0 Roland is a passiona=
te father and an active social reformer who believes Australia's current law=
s are contributing to the creation of our fatherless society=2E <o:p=3E</o:p=
=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div align=3Dright=3E<font size=3D2=3E<a href=3D=
'#top'=3EBack to top</a=3E</font=3E</div=3E<br=3E<p=3E</p=3E</font=3E</block=
quote=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D13 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' =
nowrap=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/=
fathers/template1/Generic/banner=2Ejpg' width=3D595=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<t=
d width=3D578 height=3D25 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' background=3D'http://www=2Ebos=
web=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/fathers/template1/Generic/fade=2Egif'=
=3E<blockquote=3E<p=3E<font size=3D3 face=3D'Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans=
-serif' color=3Dblack=3E<br=3E<a name=3D'anchor6'=3E</a=3E<b=3ESpecial Featu=
re</b=3E</font=3E<font face=3D'verdana' size=3D2=3E<br=3E<br=3E<div=3E<img s=
rc=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5F=
issue94-14th June, 2004=5Fcouple-married=2Egif' align=3Dleft=3E</div=3E <H1 =
style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU=3E<F=
ONT face=3DVerdana size=3D3=3EMarriage: The Foundation of Life</FONT=3E</SPA=
N=3E</H1=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: ju=
stify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D=
2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3EBy Ron Hellyer<=3Fxml:namespace prefix =3D o ns =3D=
 'urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office' /=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FON=
T=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-A=
LIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FO=
NT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</S=
PAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: j=
ustify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT size=
=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3EI have been involved in the building industry =
for 30 years=2E Dad was a builder and he built our family home and weekender=
 so I was involved with the construction industry from an early age=2E<o:p=3E=
</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGI=
N: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-=
language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3EOne important les=
son that Dad always reiterated was the importance of good foundations for an=
y job=2E </FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-lan=
guage: EN-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3EYears later, I becam=
e a building inspector and saw first hand the attempts by people to modify g=
ood foundations=2E The tried and tested ways were short cut with disastrous =
results, even death to occupants caused by faulty foundations=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=
=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0c=
m 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-langu=
age: EN-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FO=
NT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0=
pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN=
-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3ELife as we know it was also c=
reated with good foundations=2E I believe that God created man and women to =
build the population of the world=2E Even if you are an evolutionist, the th=
eory still upholds that evolution of the species came from a male and female=
, not two of the same, otherwise we would not be here=2E </FONT=3E</FONT=3E<=
/SPAN=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D=
2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3ESo is it a surprise that in this mixed up world, =
people are trying to take the shortcut to the good foundation of marriage=2E=
 </FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: E=
N-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3EScholars have stated that ma=
rriage is the cornerstone of civilisation=2E </FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E<SPA=
N lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT f=
ace=3DVerdana=3EIf we accept this premise then why is there such a move by s=
uch a small minority to change the foundation of civilisation=3F<o:p=3E</o:p=
=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0c=
m 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-langu=
age: EN-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FO=
NT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0=
pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN=
-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3EMany of the articles in issue=
s of this newsletter are the foundation elements of fathering and family=2E =
Without these components we do not have a family but a group of individuals =
seeking their own self-gratification=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SP=
AN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: ju=
stify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D=
2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3EThe remote tribes of lost civilisations when disc=
overed by the =91white man=92 had in place marriage structures, family struc=
tures and hierarchical elements of a societal structure=2E They wouldn=92t s=
urvive if they didn=92t=2E Is there any civilisation that has survived on th=
e foundation of =91homosexual marriage=92=3F<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E=
</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN=
: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT s=
ize=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3EIt was with great admiration that I receive=
d the government=92s news that they were strengthening the Marriage Act=2E T=
his move showed me two things:<BR=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E=
</P=3E<OL style=3D'MARGIN-TOP: 0cm' type=3D1=3E<LI class=3DMsoNormal style=3D=
'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-sto=
ps: list 36=2E0pt'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E=
<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3EThe Government understood the sancti=
ty and necessity of protecting the foundations of society<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FO=
NT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E<LI class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; T=
EXT-ALIGN: justify; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; tab-stops: list 36=2E0pt'=3E<S=
PAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT=
 face=3DVerdana=3EThe Government was recognising marriage as an absolute, no=
t an arrangement than can be modified and compromised by the legal system=2E=
</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN=
-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</=
FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</LI=3E</OL=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm =
0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: E=
N-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3EIn our homes most of us woul=
d conduct some sort of maintenance to where we live i=2Ee=2E painting, plumb=
ing repairs, gutters fixed=85etc=2E Some older houses even need underpinning=
 of the foundations or the house will collapse=2E We do this to protect our =
environment and provide shelter for our family=2E </FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E=
<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FO=
NT face=3DVerdana=3EThis environment is important for the raising of childre=
n and the continuance of our generations and society=2E </FONT=3E</FONT=3E</=
SPAN=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D=
2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3ESuccessful marriages generally produce successful=
 children=2E Look at the statistics=2E There is a wealth of evidence on the =
results of a stable family structure and the development of children=2E Ther=
e is a wealth of statistical data on the difficulties of dysfunctional famil=
ies and the desire of so many to seek happiness and love=2E To be wanted=2E =
</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN=
-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3E=A0<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</FONT=3E</=
FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEX=
T-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-ansi-language: EN-AU'=3E=
<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3EWhen we accept the marriage vows, th=
is act is for life, not simply a symbol of some legal arrangement than can b=
e used to manipulate society, morally or financially=2E </FONT=3E</FONT=3E</=
SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; m=
so-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial'=3EIn the Netherland=
s, where gay marriage is already legal, the average 'committed' gay relation=
ship is lasting just 1=2E5 years=2E (Source: The AIDS Journal 17 (2003)<o:p=3E=
</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; T=
EXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAM=
ILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial'=3E=A0=
<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: =
12pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; F=
ONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Aria=
l'=3EGood foundations don=92t fail quickly=2E Wanting what someone else has =
is one of our human desires, not necessarily good for us=2E </SPAN=3E<SPAN s=
tyle=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-s=
ize: 9=2E0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial'=3ECurrently legislation is in pla=
ce in Australia outlawing polygamy=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D=
'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN style=3D=
'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E=
0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial'=3ESociety cringes at unfaithfulness and in=
fidelity=2E Gay activities, by their very lifestyle promote promiscuous acti=
vity=2E Is it not difficult to see the very breakdown of societal structure =
if the sanctity of the marriage partnership of man and woman is compromised=2E=
<IMG hspace=3D3 src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5F=
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</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; T=
EXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAM=
ILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial'=3E=A0=
<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: =
12pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; F=
ONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Aria=
l'=3EThe attempt to erode the foundations of life as we know it are destined=
 to continue=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt=
; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; =
COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt; mso-bidi-fo=
nt-family: Arial'=3E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0c=
m 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 1=
0pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt; mso-bi=
di-font-family: Arial'=3EAs fathers who believe in your family and marriage =
it is a time=A0for constant watching=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P styl=
e=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN st=
yle=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-si=
ze: 9=2E0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial'=3EWe cannot be complacent, our chi=
ldren need a society=A0with foundation, not a fragmented anything goes, feel=
s go do it, me,me,me existence=2E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm =
0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10p=
t; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt; mso-bidi=
-font-family: Arial'=3ECivil rights and legal argument will become the focus=
 of society=2E</SPAN=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FA=
MILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Arial'=3E=A0=
<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: =
12pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN style=3D'FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; F=
ONT-FAMILY: Verdana; mso-bidi-font-size: 9=2E0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: Aria=
l'=3ESpend time reinforcing the importance of marriage with your children=2E=
 The importance of your children understanding is absolute=2E</SPAN=3E</P=3E=
<P style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<=
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